How To Deal With Negative People And What NOBODY Tells You
How To NOT Let People’s Negative Energy Affect You.. MUST WATCH!!!
Okay, so the first thing to know when you’re dealing with negative people is quite frankly, that you actually can’t change the way somebody thinks. You can’t. Even if somebody does ultimately change the way that they think, you didn’t do it right, they came to their own conclusions. Ultimately that caused their mind to shift. Now, what happens a lot of times is there’s a negative influence in our life in any capacity. Maybe it’s someone that is questioning your dreams, maybe someone that just doesn’t believe what you believe in in the world and society. And the problem becomes when we face negative opposition and we wish that it wasn’t that way. We say, why is it like this? I wish things were different. I don’t understand why they’re like this. And we get into this place where we actually resist resistance. So if you resist resistance, the only thing that can persist is resistance.
If you resist resistance, the only thing that can persist is resistance. Meaning that if you have a negative influence, a negative energy, a person that is adamant that you’re wrong about something, to the degree that you try to defend your position and make yourself right again, or show them why they don’t understand, or to the degree that you just simply keep questioning it. When did they get this way? When did they become so negative? Why don’t they understand they’re so stupid, they just don’t get it. To the degree that you stay in. That consciousness of trying to figure it all out is to the degree that that energy will always control you. You’ve given your power away to it. So the first thing to note is that we actually quite literally cannot control their people. And the way to have a level of detachment about what’s going on around us is to really recognize what this plane of existence actually is.
So this is a world of polarity. Quite literally. There’s a North pole and the South pole, there’s also negative. There’s light and dark. There’s morning, then there’s evening. We actually live in a world of polarity. We do. And that’s the purpose of this realm. The purpose of this realm is to help us evolve by teaching us through polarity, by teaching us through desirable and undesirable mean and nice, uh, love and negative, uh, dark and light. The goal of this dimension isn’t to be different. That’s not the goal of this dimension. But what happens is people resist resistance. Why are they so negative? Why do they not understand? Why don’t they get this thing? Why don’t they? Why don’t they? Why don’t, why don’t you understand? You don’t get it. Just be nice. Wow. Why can’t you have an open mind? To the degree that we resist resistance, we’re actually resisting life.
You never watch a river flow and go, why is it flowing? It’s just so frustrating. Why can’t it just stop? You don’t resist nature. Yet. We try to resist the ultimate universal truth, which is we live in a polarity world. You don’t resist the fact that the sun rises in the morning. You don’t go, Oh my gosh, why does it have to do this again? It’s going to get all bright and it’s skin. My eyes are going to hurt. You don’t do that, right? You don’t want a cat Meow. You don’t go, Oh my gosh, why can’t it just bark? And when a dog barks, you don’t go, can’t you just Meow? We don’t do that yet. We do it with the ultimate universal truth that we live in a world of polarity. What if this world was exactly what it’s supposed to be and it’s always going to be a world in this dimension of polarity.
And what if the purpose of it was that it was a teaching ground for you to practice detachment, practice living your own truth, practicing, controlling your own energy, your own emotions, uh, having dominion and control over your own mind and your own consciousness. And what if all the negativity and all the polarity in the world is actually really God, it’s actually really truth. It’s actually really divinity in that it’s here to help you evolve as a spiritual being. I know for myself, the greatest evolution that I’ve had has always been through negative things. It’s always been through negative things. It’s always been through negative people. See, one of the benefits that I have of being on the internet is, you know, a lot of people dig what I’m doing and a lot of people don’t. And I’ve read, I’ve definitely read over 10,000 negative messages for sure.