STOP Chasing Love and Relationships – Instead Do This! (Make Them Chase You!!)

STOP Chasing Love and Relationships – Instead do This! [Make Them Chase You!!]
Right now there’s a lot of people teaching you how to manifest love into your life and attract a relationship. I have tried many of the techniques over the years, and it wasn’t until I did this few step process, and STOPPED chasing love and relationships that I finally was able to attract my soulmate Ashley into my life. I am thankful that I was able to stop chasing relationships and actually make her chase me in our lives. So this is what I suggest you do instead…
There’s a lot of videos talking about how to attract a specific person. I tried their techniques. I was trying to get the results that I wanted. I was trying to attract a certain person into my life for a business opportunity and it wasn’t getting the results that I wanted. It’s time. to stop chasing love and relationships an start doing new tricks.
I wanted to meet my soulmate. Wasn’t getting the results that I wanted. And then I came across a very unexpected kind of startling technique. I want to share with you exactly what to do, and it involves stopping everything that you have been doing to attract certain people into your life.
When you stop doing that and you start doing this other thing, you’re going to get the results that you want a lot faster. It was as quick as lightning for me.

Okay? So in this video, we’re going to break down three quick and easy steps. So the first thing is whatever you chase, elude you. Think about some dates you’ve been on. Maybe you fell for the person hard. The first date, you’re talking about getting married and having kids. And then you call 15 times that night, every hour, just to check in and make sure they’re still doing okay. And you can’t wait to see them tomorrow.
What happens so often? The other person goes to bed that night and they think “I’m not sure I want to see this person again”. Whatever you pursue too aggressively, continues to elude you. Now, this has to do with subconscious messages that you’re sending to other people that you are unaware of when you really, really, really want to attract a boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or wife or soulmate.

When you really want somebody to show up in your life and it hasn’t happened yet, and you really want it to happen, you are actually sending them a telepathic message subconsciously that they pick up and it is telling them to stay away from you because needy continues to attract more needy.
When you need to get the person you attract more needing it. And the other person, whether they know it or not are staying away from you because it is not in their highest and best good. This is all happening subconsciously by the way, this is not happening consciously.
They aren’t aware that they’re moving away from you and you aren’t aware that you are pushing them away from you. Because you think if you’re chasing something, to attract a certain person in your life, duh, you’re going to get them in your life. But it’s highly likely that you are sending a message to push them away from you.
What you must recognize is as long as you are continuing to think that somebody or something will fill a space in your life that needs to be filled, you will always be holding that empty cup, waiting for the person to come into your life and fill it. You have to approach that person with a full cup, as opposed to wanting them to fill your cup. So step number one is that needy is creepy.
Now the next thing that you need to do is you need to make a list of the qualities and characteristics of the person that you want to attract. And you might be like, why? I already know who I want to attract. Now, here’s the thing.

I wanted to attract a fulfilling, romantic relationship into my life. And I had one that I thought was going to be that one. And that person walked out of my life probably because I was chasing them so hard. I wanted the relationship to work so bad. I pushed them away. So I wanted one to workout for me. I made a list. I wanted somebody who was an artist. I never met anyone that was super creative.
I thought that was attractive. I wanted a very persistent person. I wanted a person that wasn’t flashy. I wanted a woman that didn’t need a lot of things. Didn’t need a lot of outside stimulation and was more on the minimalist side, as opposed to somebody that was extravagant and more materialistic. So I built this list. I put the list on my wall and then I went on with my life.
I went on with focusing on me, being happy instead of chasing that person and logging into a million different dating apps and trying to set up dates every single day. I realized there were certain things about myself I needed to fix before I could find that right person. So i made this list and I went on building myself and being happy.

Then I started doing the dates. I started showing up in the dates. I started approaching people. You can do the dating apps after that. You can do all these things, but now you’re aware of what it is that you truly want. And you recognize that at the end of the day, you need to be able to make yourself happy first.
I didn’t meet the right person through the dating apps and normal scenarios. But then out of absolutely nowhere, I got a call that one of my friends wanted me to meet his friend’s daughter who happened to be in town. And I was like, this is weird. I don’t want to do this. I’m already going on dates, right? Like I’m doing the traditional things, but fine. I’ll go. I’ll answer the call of the universe.
And I show up at this thing and boom, that’s how I met Ashley. She is now my wife. And we’re about a week or two away from having our first baby together. Here’s what I learned. Clearly define the qualities and characteristics out of the person that you want. Then you will get the person you want or somebody greater who fits your true desire. We are on track to stop chasing love and relationships now. So you pull out a piece of paper, you write the qualities. And then before you try to go out on a million dates, first realize that you are the source of love and happiness in your life. And when you find it within yourself first, then the outside world mirrors it to you in the proper person that shows up in your life.

Last but not least is to be happy for other people that have it. Along the same vein of always trying to chase romantic relationships or business partnerships, we can often get jealous of other people that have it. Somebody else has the perfect business relationships. Somebody else has an overflowing level of clients or customers. Maybe you just see two people so happy and laughing so much and they’re holding hands. It’s very easy to wish you had it. I know from experience it’s easy to get jealous of that on some deep level and maybe even judge them as a result of it. .
The degree of jealousy you feel, that’s the degree that you still don’t believe you can attract the right person into your life. You wouldn’t be jealous of somebody else that had it, If you didn’t believe you could have it too.

So instead, when you see someone with an awesome marriage, when you see people with an awesome relationship, maybe you wanted to date somebody and now somebody else’s dating them.
If you can bless that relationship psychically. If you can bless that relationship in your mind, then what you’re actually saying is there is an infinite amount of perfection in love in the universe. And when you say that you send the message to your subconscious, that says my person is out there. My perfect person is out there. And I know it on a super deep level. You’re sending that type of a message as opposed to somebody that you wanted to date with is not with somebody else. And you’re jealous of it. What you’re really saying is I live in a world of limitation and scarcity, and this person took my person and now I don’t have anybody. So you’re still in the same place of chasing a relationship.

Use the conscious practice of blessing other people’s love. Maybe you just had a bad breakup. Can you bless that person to find their soulmate? Can you bless that person to find love? Even if you wish you could get back together with them. If you want to get back together with them, what you actually do is have to bless them in their own freewill, their own love, their own journey, and for their own highest happiness and wellbeing.
And if their own highest and happiness and wellbeing means that they’re supposed to be with you, it will ultimately circle back that way. But it won’t happen from you forcing it and chasing it. It’ll happen through divine law and divine love. It’ll happen on its own accord.
So it’s time to start blessing other peoples success and love so you too can attract your highest experession into your reality.
#Stopchasinglove #love #relationships
There’s a lot of videos talking about how to attract a specific person. I tried them. I was trying to get the results that I wanted. I was trying to attract certain person into my life for a business opportunity and it wasn’t getting the results that I wanted. And I wanted to meet my soulmate. Wasn’t getting the results that I wanted. And then they came across a very unexpected kind of startling because it was so different. And I want to share with you exactly what to do, and it involves stopping everything that you have been doing to attract certain people into your life. And when you stop doing this and you start doing this other thing, you’re going to get the results that you want a lot faster. It was kind of like as quick as lightning for me. And so let’s get right into this video.
Okay? So in this video, we’re going to break down three quick and easy steps. So the first of the three things that you need to know is that whatever you chase alludes you, whatever you chase alludes, you think about it when you’re on the first date and you’re with that person or you are that person. Hopefully not. That’s kind of over the top. The first day, you’re talking about getting married and having kids. And then you call 15 times that night, every hour, just to check in and make sure they’re still doing okay. And you can’t wait to see them tomorrow. And what kind of happens. The other person goes to bed that night and they think I’m not sure. I want to see this person again, whatever you pursue to aggressively continues to elude you. Now, this has to do with subconscious messages that you’re sending to other people that you are unaware of when you really, really, really want to attract a boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or wife or soulmate, when you really, really, really want to attract a certain person into your life as a business, as a client, as a customer, when you really, really, really want somebody to show up in your life and it hasn’t happened yet, and you really want it to happen, you are actually sending them a telepathic message, subconsciously that they pick up subconsciously as well through their subconscious, intuitive or instinctual senses.
And it is telling them to stay away from you because needy continues to attract more needy. When you need to get the person you attract more of needing it and the other person, whether they know it or not are staying away from you because it is not in their highest and best good. This is all happening subconsciously by the way, this is not happening consciously. They aren’t aware that they’re moving away from you and you are to where that you are pushing them away from you. Because you think if you’re chasing something, if you’re doing the techniques to attract a certain person in your life, duh, you’re going to get them in your life. But it’s highly likely that you are sending sub means below. So this is happening below the level of conscious awareness, and you’re sending a message to push them away from you.
What you must recognize is as long as you are continuing to think that somebody or something will fill a space in your life that needs to be filled, you will always be holding that empty cup, waiting for the person to come into your life and fill it. You have to approach that person, even if it’s all on the, on the Astro level, cause it all happening. Subconsciously you have to approach that person with a full cup, as opposed to wanting them to fill your cup. So step number one is that needy is creepy. Now the next thing that you need to do is you need to make a list of the qualities and characteristics of the person that you want to attract. And you might be like, why? I already know who I want to attract. Now, here’s the thing. When you make this list of the qualities and characteristics, I’ll give you an example.